Volcano in Antigua, Guatemala.
Are you a future volunteer? Or are you just curious? Wouldn’t it be nice if you knew all the mistakes a person can do when coming to Guatemala? Well, I can’t tell you all of them, but I sure can tell you mine and hope you can learn without having to go through them yourself. Also, I will give you some advice, which may be less entertaining but hopefully still useful. Some of them, I might have had, but didn’t quite apply and others that just came to me in my first few weeks here. MISTAKES / OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN We all learn from our mistakes. What if you could learn from mine without having to go through the consequences yourself? Here we go: Mistake or Opportunity to learn #1 My first day of training in Guatemala City, I got to meet the whole team from CECI-Guatemala. I have had friends from Central and South America for a long time and still I leaned in and gave the first person two kisses on each cheek instead of one. It’s just a small anecdote, but it goes a long way of showing how the reflexes from our own culture can be strong. Mistake or Opportunity to learn #2 Also on my first day, I had dinner at the hotel’s restaurant and maybe it was the exhaustion from all the traveling, but again I made a mistake that could easily have been avoided. It is known that often the tip is already included on the bill here, but my brain seemed to have forgotten this fact too, so I left 20% tip in addition to the already included tip. No matter how much you prepare and how much you know, these trivial mistakes will most likely happen to you. In case of doubt about the tip, just ask the waiter and they will tell you if you need to add it or not. Mistake or Opportunity to learn #3 My next opportunity to learn also happened in my first few days there. I had just gotten a SIM card and a package for my phone so I had a Guatemalan number and access to Internet. The company kept sending text messages with ads and offers. My Spanish isn’t perfect but I can more than get by. In this case my first language, French, went and tricked me. One of the text messages said that I should send a text with a certain code to “finalizar” the contract, which to me sounded like “finaliser” in French or “finalize” in English – as in “to conclude” the contract. Well I did, but “finalizar” meant to terminate the contract, so I had local mobile phone access for a big 30 minutes. In this case knowing more than one language played against me, but I contacted them with the hotel phone and could resolve it all with lots of explanation on “false friends”. Mistake or Opportunity to learn #4 One of the mistakes I was going to write was to have brought too many clothes for the wrong weather. After a month though, Antigua really has all types of weather, so do bring a bit of everything. Don’t forget your rain boots and your raincoat if you come between May and September! ADVICE BE PATIENT. The whole world isn’t all as much in a hurry as we can be. Yes, we are here for a certain amount of time and need to facilitate a change with our partner during this time but taking the time now to unpack, meet the locals, get to know them, etc. can help widely to make your project a sustainable success in the future. This one is a given, but still very important to keep in mind: TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE CULTURE WITHOUT JUDGING IT. It is so easy to judge other people’s actions, but if you take the time to ask questions and understand them, not only will you find out that there are often good reasons for everything you see, but also, it will help you collaborate with them. This also includes speaking the language or at least making an effort in your free time to learn more of it every day. FIND YOURSELF A SOCIAL CIRCLE/NETWORK. It can be by creating bonds with the people you are now living with (for instance, I have three roommates) or with new people by going out and doing activities you enjoy (for example, I go to yoga classes in Antigua). Not only will it help you miss your home less, but also, you will start to feel at home in this new country you are in.